I sat cross-legged, carefully balanced on edge of my grandparent’s mottled brown couch. My grandmother tucked her legs to the side, neatly folding onto the floor in front of me. “Make me beautiful,” she whispered. I replied, “You already are,” and teased the pick through her curls; bouncy, full and perfectly done.
At home, my father took his time untangling my hair. His affection traveled with each gentle tug, erasing childhood worry and young adult stress.
My mother often sat behind me as we watched an evening show. She tested new braids, played, and wondered if anything would ever keep my hair in place through an entire gymnastics practice.
In the dorm, missing our families, we sought to fill the voids becoming an adult created. When a friend braided my hair, I flooded with joy.
My husband tucks a loose strand behind my ear, so he can see me clearly, or sweeps it aside and kisses the back of my neck. My son brushes my hair as I read to him in bed, knowing I will lose track of time. My daughter pets my head, she is a cat person.
When I am older, I will still wind my long hair into a bun. I will sit on the floor in front of a grandchild and smile. Generations of love will be in their small hands, unwinding my hair. Untangling me.